Why Your Story Matters More Than You Think
In a world where we’re constantly bombarded with what we “should” be doing, it’s easy to feel like our stories don’t matter. I know I’ve always believed that what I’ve been through, is really not important.
We look around and compare ourselves to others—wondering if what we’ve been through is worth sharing or if anyone would even care.
I suppose, at the end of the day, it’s really what makes us unique, and it holds the power to inspire others who might be walking a similar path—whether its moms like me or individuals who’ve faced trauma, hardship, or simply want to break free from the past.
Walking My Own Path: From Rejection to Resilience
For me, the journey started in a place where I didn’t fit in. I grew up craving love and support from a family that never really accepted me.
I had too much energy for most people. I was constantly told I was "too much," and I would never get far in life because I didn’t follow the masses, I walked my own path. I wasn’t an academic like everyone else, and because of that, I was told I’d never amount to anything without a degree or a stable office job.
I distinctly remember when I was 14 years old, going to my Granny for afternoon tea, with my mum after school. Both my aunts were there too. They were all chatting away, and my one aunt straight out says to my mum, “Good Luck! You’ll be stuck with Sam forever, you'll never get rid of her! She’s talking about dropping out of school, so she’s clearly nothing more than a high-school dropout, who is going nowhere in life…She will never get a job, and she’ll never be anybody. Unlike her brother and the rest of our kids, look how they achieve. They are exceptional and will go so far in life. It’s such a shame, she’s not one of them.” Nobody said a word. They just nodded their heads.
But I was determined to prove them wrong. I wanted freedom, not a 9-to-5 life. I didn’t finish school, but that didn’t scare me because I knew I wanted to be free and create my own income—on my own terms. I wasn’t sure how I was going to do it, but I knew I wanted to figure out how to make it work without ever having to rely on anyone for anything. My love for the outdoors (the beach), my hands-on learning style, and my desire to help others all shaped the path I’m on today.
I decided that I was going to keep walking my own path, and stick to it—even if no one else understood it.
Overcoming the Voices That Said “You’ll Never Be Enough”
Of course, the journey hasn’t been easy. It’s been filled with moments where I felt like I wasn’t good enough, I doubted everything I did—especially in my earlier years. I have always faced criticism and comparisons to others, like, "Why can't you be as clever as your brother?" or "Why don’t you get marks like everyone else?" or “Why do you always ask such stupid questions?” or “Why can’t you just sit down and pay attention like the rest of your class?”
I won a lot of medals and trophies, swimming, and I remember begging my parents to come watch me, just once…The response I’d get was, “Why do you always feel the need to be the center of attention?”
These comments stuck with me, and over time, I stopped asking questions and started doubting myself.
Breaking Free from Narcissistic Relationships
The challenge continued into adulthood when I found myself in two narcissistic relationships. At the time, I had no idea what a narcissist even was, I don’t think I’d even heard of the word, let alone that I was in one of these relationships. I was made to believe that everything was in my head—that I was overreacting. I stayed in a verbally and psychologically abusive relationship for years, because I thought that’s just how life was meant to be. But eventually, when the physical signs were starting to show, I found the courage to get out. I was scared of what might happen to my kids but I had to break free.
Not long after, I found myself in what was clearly a rebound relationship, with someone I thought I knew. Very manipulative and controlling, and within 9 months I found myself in an insane amount of debt.
No one warned me about what I was going through, and when I reached out for help, I was often told, "You made your bed, now lie in it."
Finding Real Happiness and Learning to Accept Support
It wasn’t until I met my now-fiancé that I started to realize what real happiness actually is. In my mind, this only happened in the movies, NOT in my world.
I had never felt this kind of support before—someone telling me I had potential, someone encouraging me to reach for more. It was a completely new experience. I was finally surrounded by positivity, and I’ve never known how to react to that because I’d never received it. Compliments still make me uncomfortable because of the self-doubt I’ve carried throughout my life. But I’m learning.
Through all the challenges, I’ve learned to rely on myself. I didn’t ask for help—I had learned from a young age that I had to figure things out on my own. And while that independence has shaped me into the person I am today, it’s also left me yearning for the connection I was missing in my childhood. Yet through it all, I’ve learned the importance of resilience, and I’ve found strength in the struggles. I’ve learned that no matter how hard things get, if you keep a positive mindset, you’ll make it through.
Why Our Story Holds Power
I have bottled up a lot over the years but, every challenge, every setback, every success—it all forms the foundation of who we are. And by sharing it, we give others permission to be authentic too. We remind them that they’re not alone.
The turning point in my life came when I realized I didn’t want to just survive—I wanted to create something meaningful. I love helping people. And if you don’t know it by now, I love color, creativity, freedom, and happiness.
I’ve realized that I’m not just here to inspire moms and their kids. I’m here to inspire anyone who has faced trauma, who’s been knocked down and found it hard to get back up, and who’s determined to rise again. Whether it’s financial struggles, relationship hardships, or simply breaking free from the mold others tried to place you in—your story can be the lifeline someone else needs.
Financial Struggles: The Road to Freedom
Financial struggles have been one of the toughest parts of my journey. There were many lessons learned along the way, but what stands out the most is this: no matter how much you struggle, there’s always a way through. I’m still working toward financial freedom, but I’ve come to realize that mindset is everything. Even when it feels like you’re stuck, with the right mindset, you can overcome anything.
Motherhood and Beyond: Inspiring Joy and Positivity
Being a mom is my greatest joy, and it has influenced much of my outlook on life. I was born to be a mum, and I was blessed with that natural maternal instinct from a very young age.
But my journey as a mom isn’t the whole story—it’s just a part of it.
My desire to inspire others extends beyond motherhood. I want to reach people who have experienced pain, doubt, and loss, and show them that they can rebuild their lives with joy, color, and hope. Whether through the products I create, the stories I tell, or the connections I make, I want to show that we can all rise above our past.
Final Thoughts: Your Story Could Light the Way for Someone Else
Your story holds power because it’s uniquely yours. It can inspire others in ways you might not even imagine. Don’t hide the parts of yourself that feel messy or unworthy—those are the parts that make you real, relatable, and strong.
Whether you’re just starting your journey or you’ve been on it for years, remember that everything you’ve been through has value.
So, the next time you think your story doesn’t matter, think again.
Your story might just be the spark that lights someone else’s way.